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The Difference Between Flirting and Seduction

Tuesday, 05 February 2008

by Lilly White     There is a difference Ladies, seduction will get his attention real fast, but this will make him assume you only want sex. Flirting on the other hand is a bit more subtle and a lot safer.   When you first meet a man you must make a great first impression, and to do this you must never seduce. Flirting can be just a smile across the room were as seduction is rolling your tongue around your lips while opening your mouth just a bit to form an ‘O’. You must get him on an emotional level first, and then the physical will follow. You must exercise his imagination.   Men think about sex all the time, this they are use to, you must be different and get their attention in an emotional way. The physical is easy but the emotional takes a little more work.   Flirting can be fun. Look into his eyes for just a second, smile, and then look at his chin or maybe his shoulder. Now with just your eyes, don't move your head at all, look back into his eyes, and repeat. Lean into him and then smile and move back just a bit to see if he moves towards you. Be patient, don't rush. Talk slow and soft, don't whisper. Practice ladies, maybe on a male friend, you will be more relaxed and then when it’s time for the real action, you'll be ready.   Seduction is getting him primed up for sex so he'll be turned on, hot and ready. Flirting is when he thinks "Wow, I think she likes me. I’d like to know more about her first and then ‘maybe’ sex”. After flirting, he will want to see you again. After he has seen you for a while and dated you, you are much closer and have an emotional connection. Then if you feel you are ready, go for it, seduce him.   Don't forget that you must not call him after your first time having sex. Let him call first, and then you’ll know he wants to see you again. He must still continue to take you out on dates; it will just be a bit steamier. Don't allow those late night last minute calls; you must still make him work for you.   Show confidence in yourself and make sure you don't allow a man to talk you into doing something that you don't want to do. We must all love ourselves first. You cannot expect a man to fall in love with you if you are down on yourself and always think that you're not good enough. We are awesome and mysterious creatures and men will always seek us out, but we must first let them know we value ourselves enough to not except bad behavior.       Article Source: http://ezinearticles.com For more exciting articles, visit us at our online magazine. Read more at: http://www.sexysinglesdate.com/News.aspx?id=59.

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